About a year ago, I was asked to be on the daytime talk show “The Doctors” to discuss a program I was launching in L.A. that used medical cannabis to help set people free from self-harming drug use.
The experience showcased the shame in which we still live. After I participated in an extensive interview with a young producer, she confided in me that she was a cannabis user. I said, “Good.There are 1,800 deaths in the 18- to 25-year-old age group annually attributed to alcohol consumption. There are zero with cannabis. You’re safer using cannabis.”
It was the typical double-edged sword of aligning with youth, smashing some shame, and giving them facts — but not loving that I’m giving them permission to smoke weed. I’d still prefer that young people avoid intoxication altogether. But that’s just not realistic, so I go with “safety first” and avoiding drug shaming. What’s the point of regurgitating stale platitudes about drug use? The producer was bright, articulate, and competent. As near as I can tell, her drug use hadn’t caused any impairment to her life, so who am I to judge or shame?
The show went well. There was a naysaying 12-step advocate, as is standard practice for the media, but he didn’t hold his position very well. He spouted the typical mantra that drugs are bad and that Alcoholic Anonymous is a blameless and holy institution, all peppered with what people “should” do. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we know.
The show is an ensemble group of doctors save for one. I guess her job is being awesome. One of the producers mentioned her; when I asked what her area of medicine was, the response was: “She’s not a doctor, but she’s really awesome.” She managed an awesomely judgmental comment followed by a tearful account of her nephew, who was helped by cannabis while battling cancer. It seemed to represent the conflict of America itself.
One of the doctors was opposed, and seemed to know a lot about addiction but definitely not because he’s addicted to facial surgery. He seemed judgmental. The lead doctor, Travis, who looks like the lead in a soap opera, was the most open-minded about the idea that cannabis can help people who are dependent on other substances.
He let me know that just a few years ago I would have been “thrown out of the building.” I think I held my own. I stated my case clearly and left it for the individual to consider. When I got off stage I was like a hero to the backstage crew. “You were right!” Of course I love being a hero — however, it’s not being right but doing what is right. It’s right to give facts to people instead of morality. It’s right to give options, do no harm, and honor the human dignity of right to self-determine. We solved nothing, but maybe we started a dialogue. That’s part of our mission at Remedy Recovery. See what you think at the link below.